Sometimes life seems to be all about Frustrations.Frustations of one's own wrong decisions,frustrations of the after effects of those wrong decisions,frustrations of the failures we faced......frustrations of the rejections...a person can forget all good things happened to him but he can never forget wrong happenings ....specially done to him.
Doesn't this mean that negativity has a stronger impact on our lives.
Some negativities are avoidable and some are not.Things which are not connected to us emotionally are always avoidable.So is it necessary to connect with everyone emotionally....absolutely no ! In our lives most of our relationships aren't exactly emotional ones......but still they pour unhappiness at times.....why ?
Here comes another factor......which is the core reason of our frustrations or may be unhappiness and that is "Ego" .When somebody questions about your ability ....you get hurt immediately you try to answer him,you try to count him many points which proves you to be a responsible person or you start with a counter attack and start questioning his abilities.But is it compulsory or may be necessary to satisfy everyone ? No ! It is absolutely not necessary to satisfy everyone infact it is next to impossible to make everyone happy....
It was easy for Krishna to hold Govardhana with his little finger but to make all his disciples happy is impossible....forget about non-disciples.
For me principle of happiness or frustration free life revolves around you only......only a happy cook can prepare a Michelin recipe....similarly only a happy heart can make your loved ones really happy....forget about people who don't love you....they can never be satisfied.....So your happiness is what counts most....try to find stuff which makes you happy....rest everything will fall in place....:)
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